¿No te ha pasado que ves los perfiles de gente que sigues en las redes sociales y piensas: ‘me encantaría tener lo mismo’ o ‘cómo hago para conseguirlo’?
Tener modelos a seguir en la vida es algo bueno, y en mi opinión necesario, porque te ayuda a trazarte metas retadoras y así trabajar por lo que quieres. El problema está en que el mundo de hoy está lleno de ‘vidas perfectas’ y nos venden lo que una vida exitosa debe ser, y el ritmo de vida es frenético donde todo pasa extremadamente rápido con demasiada información y poco tiempo para procesarla.
La consecuencia de este ritmo moderno es que no tenemos, o mejor dicho no nos damos el tiempo para digerir y pensar en todo lo que vemos y aprendemos. Vemos algo o alguien e inmediatamente nos invade el sentimiento de ‘lo quiero’, sin detenernos a pensar si es algo que realmente queremos y que va en consonancia con nuestras metas.
Pero, yo también lo quiero
El verdadero problema radica en que al final del día, de manera consciente o inconsciente, estamos cometiendo uno de los peores errores cuando de alcanzar lo que quieres se trata: nos comparamos con los demás.
No se de donde proviene el dicho, pero me gusta mucho: El pasto siempre se ve más verde al otro lado de la cerca. Pero el detalle no está en como lo ves del otro lado, sino cuando te enfocas tanto en el otro que dejas de regar el tuyo. Las personas desperdician demasiado tiempo de sus vidas viendo lo que hacen los demás y lamentándose de no tener lo que otros tienen…. No caigas en ese juego.
Tu mayor adversario: TÚ
Como te dije, es bueno tener un modelo a seguir. Tratar de emular a alguien que ha alcanzado el éxito y que ha conseguido lo que tu también quieres conseguir te sirve de inspiración. Pero no confundas emular con imitar. Aunque ambos términos están basados en la observación, al imitar repites paso a paso lo que ves mientras que al emular te enfocas en los resultados de las acciones. Recuerda que todos somos diferentes y lo que funcione para mi no necesariamente va a funcionar exactamente igual para ti.
La clave: no uses tus modelos a seguir como medida. La única persona que define tu éxito eres tú, por lo que a la única persona a quien tienes que superar para ser mejor es….. ¡a ti mismo!
Una vez escuché ‘no compares tu día 1 con el día 500 de alguien’. Y aunque no recuerdo donde ni cuando, si sé que quedo impreso en mi memoria y me la he repetido una y otra vez cuando comienzo a enfocarme en la grama al otro lado de la cerca. Además, hay mucha grama artificial en otros patios y muchos vecinos usando filtros.
Ten claras tus metas y lo que quieres para ti, y no dejes que lo que otras personas digan o tengan defina tu camino al éxito. Trabaja por TUS SUEÑOS, no el de los demás.
Entre todos podemos cambiarlo
Si tuviera que escoger que te llevaras una sola cosa contigo de este artículo quisiera que fuese esto: Dejemos de pretender y comencemos a ser verdaderos en todos los aspectos de nuestras vidas, especialmente en las redes sociales. Con esto vas a ayudarte a ti porque vas a comenzar a vivir tu vida desde otra perspectiva, la tuya. Pero también vas a ayudar a la gente que conoces mostrándoles que la vida no es perfecta, y que si te esfuerzas poco a poco vas a ir alcanzado lo que quieres. No caigas en el juego de vender una vida que no tienes para encajar o impresionar a los demás.
Y si ves que un familiar o amistad se siente frustrada o decaída porque no tiene lo que otros han conseguido, recuérdale que la única persona a la que tiene que superar es a él/ella. Ayudar a los demás no cuesta nada pero llena muchísimo.
Y como siempre relájate, coge tu taza y ¡TE INVITO UN CAFÉ!
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